Does anyone know which is a gentle hair relaxer to use on my delicate curly neck hair?

I'd like to accentuate the length as it is starting to curl and look shorter than it actually is and is becoming unseemly. I'm starting to get teased at work because it's shorter then everyone else.Does anyone know which is a gentle hair relaxer to use on my delicate curly neck hair?
Affirm makes great relaxers....Don't worry about what other people say about you as long as you like it thats all that matters.

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